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Separation pain<\/a> is an essential part of our lives. Sooner or later, everyone suffers from heartbreak that cannot be put into words and above all makes you sad, saddened, maybe even angry and drives you almost to despair. Depending on the stage of heartbreak we are in, we feel different emotions. In many cases, the actual heartbreak begins before the breakup, which is especially due to one’s ability to intuition. The chance of overcoming the pain of love permanently and conclusively exists above all if those affected live through all the phases of heartbreak. So it seems inevitable to have to endure each phase on its own. Fortunately, it is possible to drastically shorten the duration of each phase with ![\"\"](\"https:\/\/remstim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Liebeskummer-was-im-Koerper-passiert-e1512730982315.jpg\")
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – what happens in our body?\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tHeartbreak – negative thoughts, a state of emotional emergency and strong physical discomfort torment us. Violent heartbreak makes our body go crazy. It is accompanied by the powerful feeling of<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – what happens in our body?\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tHeartbreak – negative thoughts, a state of emotional emergency and strong physical discomfort torment us. Violent heartbreak makes our body go crazy. It is accompanied by the powerful feeling of<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n
\nThird stage of heartbreak – fighting and suffering<\/h4>\n
Once the initial shock is over, we seem to mobilize new forces and nurture hopes. Because now we are starting to become active again. But not in the sense of playing sports, meeting friends or going dancing, but with focus on the beloved. We try by all means to save our relationship and win back the ex. We are ready to make any compromise in the hope that he or she will come back to us after all. Our emotions take on unimagined dimensions during this phase. Most of them didn’t even know they were capable of feeling such tremendous emotions until then. However, this phase is also one of the most dangerous heartbreak phases.<\/p>\n
Not infrequently, we overburden the beloved with our offers and our actionism, with which we usually achieve exactly the opposite. Because he or she moves further and further away from us, until at some point the last spark of love and affection has dried up. Obvious annoyance and emotional coldness strike us and put us over the top. We usually suffer a lot because after the breakup we now also have to deal with the direct rejection of the former partner. This third heartbreak phase is extremely stressful for us. Our own feelings are no longer controllable and jump from one extreme to the next. <\/a>But there is hope, because once we get through this heartbreak phase, things will keep going uphill.<\/p>\n
\nFourth stage of heartbreak – admission and anger<\/h4>\n
The back and forth of feelings from the third phase is now followed by the crucial heartbreak phase. Because now we are ready to admit the end of the relationship. This realization is usually very painful and above all associated with grief<\/a> and pain of love. We reach our emotional nadir and see the light at the end of the tunnel only in a blur, if at all. Any hope has left us in the long run, it seems. In addition, we are always plagued by anger – both at ourselves and at the ex-partner, as we look for someone to blame for the emotional disaster.<\/p>\nThese are all normal, albeit painful, processes that anyone who is abandoned has to go through.<\/a> It is important to allow this time, as well as the heartbreak phases before, to eventually overcome it. It is helpful to reduce the distressing symptoms of<\/a> heartbreak, which is usually very successful, especially with the use of EMDR<\/a>. Intervention with rapid eye movements<\/a> helps to lower mental and emotional stress.<\/p>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\tRead also:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/remstim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Thumbnail-EMDR-Stimulationseffekte.jpg\")
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tStimulation effects of EMDR\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tThe possible positive effects of EMDR, which can be applied in self-coaching thanks to the REMSTIM 3000, are exemplified here. The reaction of each user can be different: Shortly before<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tStimulation effects of EMDR\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tThe possible positive effects of EMDR, which can be applied in self-coaching thanks to the REMSTIM 3000, are exemplified here. The reaction of each user can be different: Shortly before<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n
\nFifth stage of heartbreak – Accept and grieve – or despair?<\/h4>\n
The end is near. In the last of the heartbreak stages, the real deep grief<\/a> begins. Now, above all, we are inwardly ready to accept the end of the relationship and admit to ourselves that there is no going back. We now know that we must take our lives into our own hands and continue on a new path. We are afraid because we do not know what to expect. In addition, we can now look at the past time a little more objectively and begin to analyze the reasons for the separation in more detail. At any rate, this describes the normal and ideal case.<\/p>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\tRead also:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t![\"\"](\"https:\/\/remstim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Trauer-Trauerbewaeltigung-bei-Liebeskummer-e1512730824445.jpg\")
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – Grief: We mourn our old love\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tGrief and especially coping with grief are important steps in overcoming heartbreak An ended relationship, especially when the breakup was not of our making, takes a toll on us mentally<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – Grief: We mourn our old love\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\tGrief and especially coping with grief are important steps in overcoming heartbreak An ended relationship, especially when the breakup was not of our making, takes a toll on us mentally<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n
Heartbreak – negative thoughts, a state of emotional emergency and strong physical discomfort torment us. Violent heartbreak makes our body go crazy. It is accompanied by the powerful feeling of<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t Heartbreak – negative thoughts, a state of emotional emergency and strong physical discomfort torment us. Violent heartbreak makes our body go crazy. It is accompanied by the powerful feeling of<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n Once the initial shock is over, we seem to mobilize new forces and nurture hopes. Because now we are starting to become active again. But not in the sense of playing sports, meeting friends or going dancing, but with focus on the beloved. We try by all means to save our relationship and win back the ex. We are ready to make any compromise in the hope that he or she will come back to us after all. Our emotions take on unimagined dimensions during this phase. Most of them didn’t even know they were capable of feeling such tremendous emotions until then. However, this phase is also one of the most dangerous heartbreak phases.<\/p>\n Not infrequently, we overburden the beloved with our offers and our actionism, with which we usually achieve exactly the opposite. Because he or she moves further and further away from us, until at some point the last spark of love and affection has dried up. Obvious annoyance and emotional coldness strike us and put us over the top. We usually suffer a lot because after the breakup we now also have to deal with the direct rejection of the former partner. This third heartbreak phase is extremely stressful for us. Our own feelings are no longer controllable and jump from one extreme to the next. <\/a>But there is hope, because once we get through this heartbreak phase, things will keep going uphill.<\/p>\n The back and forth of feelings from the third phase is now followed by the crucial heartbreak phase. Because now we are ready to admit the end of the relationship. This realization is usually very painful and above all associated with grief<\/a> and pain of love. We reach our emotional nadir and see the light at the end of the tunnel only in a blur, if at all. Any hope has left us in the long run, it seems. In addition, we are always plagued by anger – both at ourselves and at the ex-partner, as we look for someone to blame for the emotional disaster.<\/p>\n These are all normal, albeit painful, processes that anyone who is abandoned has to go through.<\/a> It is important to allow this time, as well as the heartbreak phases before, to eventually overcome it. It is helpful to reduce the distressing symptoms of<\/a> heartbreak, which is usually very successful, especially with the use of EMDR<\/a>. Intervention with rapid eye movements<\/a> helps to lower mental and emotional stress.<\/p>\n\t\t The possible positive effects of EMDR, which can be applied in self-coaching thanks to the REMSTIM 3000, are exemplified here. The reaction of each user can be different: Shortly before<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t The possible positive effects of EMDR, which can be applied in self-coaching thanks to the REMSTIM 3000, are exemplified here. The reaction of each user can be different: Shortly before<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n The end is near. In the last of the heartbreak stages, the real deep grief<\/a> begins. Now, above all, we are inwardly ready to accept the end of the relationship and admit to ourselves that there is no going back. We now know that we must take our lives into our own hands and continue on a new path. We are afraid because we do not know what to expect. In addition, we can now look at the past time a little more objectively and begin to analyze the reasons for the separation in more detail. At any rate, this describes the normal and ideal case.<\/p>\n\t\t Grief and especially coping with grief are important steps in overcoming heartbreak An ended relationship, especially when the breakup was not of our making, takes a toll on us mentally<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t Grief and especially coping with grief are important steps in overcoming heartbreak An ended relationship, especially when the breakup was not of our making, takes a toll on us mentally<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\tRead more \u00bb\t\t<\/a>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/article>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – what happens in our body?\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t
\nThird stage of heartbreak – fighting and suffering<\/h4>\n
\nFourth stage of heartbreak – admission and anger<\/h4>\n
Read also:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tStimulation effects of EMDR\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tStimulation effects of EMDR\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t
\nFifth stage of heartbreak – Accept and grieve – or despair?<\/h4>\n
Read also:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – Grief: We mourn our old love\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t
<\/div>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\tHeartbreak – Grief: We mourn our old love\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t